September 5, 2015
They say, when you start working straight from college (I mean really straight), everything will go on and on and on... and on. You will not gonna experience so many things that your college buddies who chose to take a time off first before working.
That sun-kissed tan from the beach... that DIY workshop you've been wanting to attend to... that "me time" somewhere while reading a good book... or those days spending for your blog. Oh man, you're gonna miss these so bad.
When I was in college, I had the urge in my vein to work already after I stepped on that center stage. And fortunately, I was offered immediately, even before I graduate, to work in a prestigious company that everybody (okay, most) in my field dreams of.
On my first day, I was this excited girl who can't wait to see her own desk and meet new people from a not-so-strange environment. First few weeks has gone by so fast. But the succeeding weeks, the demanding schedule and tasks followed me. I realized, what people keeps saying about working after college is true. Once you're trapped in your chair and computer, you no longer have the time to do the things you want like before. No time excuse has become my usual line whenever I'm asked to hang out.
Heck it's hard to work.
I've been in this stage where I really want to stop for a moment and... go home. Every time I tell this to people, they always advise me to take a break. It sounds easy but it's really hard to do. Knowing that our schedule should be flexible and we're not tied to a strict Monday to Friday, 8:00AM to 5:00PM, our work really demands us to be in the office 24/7. I am not overreacting. Literally, 24/7. And I know that. Life in Media is very demanding and most of the time, exhausting. #TheTruthAboutOurWork
Although it's not easy for me to juggle every single day away from my family and the things I love, at the end of the day, there is something that is pulling me to stay still. My dreams. My goals.
Whenever I feel down and unmotivated, I always keep myself thinking what led me here and followed by why am I here. My dreams and goals keep me going through that tiny hole of the needle. And even if it's really hard, I have to be strong and positive to keep going.
I have to work hard to play hard. I know it's hard at first but eventually, everything will pay off.
No one made a difference by staying in their comfort zone.
The girl once said hi to the world,
It asked her,
Was it nice to meet me?
She answered,
Of course! I'm so glad to meet you!
She answered,
Of course! I'm so glad to meet you!
August 16, 2015
If you would ask me what I'd rather wear during the day (or night), it would be dresses! I used to be the tee-and-jeans-kind-of-girl, but when I discovered the comfort powers of dresses and skirts, I'd have to make my jeans miss me a little. Knowing that my style is very girly, a perfect semi-formal dress from cocomelody would really save the day.
Here are the reasons why I love the dresses from cocomelody:
I can definitely wear the dress from day to night. This is one factor I always consider when buying a clothing item, especially if it's a dress. Aside from wanting to save money, I really opt for something that I can wear anywhere. Say I have a meeting in the morning and an event to go to in the evening, I don't want to bring tons of clothes and change 'no. I want a dress that is perfect for any occasion so I can wear it most of the time.
I can save up as much as 20% every now and then. Now, who does not want to save money from shopping? Someone from the back whispers wait, is that even possible? Well... of course! Aside from cocomelody's cheap semi-formal dresses, you also get to enjoy a 20% discount on all of their collection. What a find!
Last, they are perfect for all ages! Whether you're a working girl or a youngster, cocomelody has everything you want. It's good to know that their products choose no one which is an important thing to consider when shopping for dresses. Remember: What you wear defines your age. Cocomelody has the power to make you look good and feel good when you wear their dresses. These semi formal dresses for teens and women are made perfectly to suit everyone's taste.
July 19, 2015
Let me start this with a catchy line from the oh-so-famous-young adult book-turned movie, The Fault in Our Stars:
"If you want to see the rainbow, you'd have to deal with the rain first."
So why did I come up to this thought? Well, as quite obvious as it may seem, that is how I am feeling as I write this after I watched the film. Again. Or so I thought.
There was a time when I caught myself staring blankly at the window beside my desk, watching the cars down pass by and observe the rusting roofs from above. Few minutes has gone by, still, my mind wanders everywhere. To my dismay, I found nothing but emptiness. I realized, I'm in a room where everyone calls it a "home" but not really there, then I found myself lost.
Maybe it's something I have to get through and I know, there's something out there that will lead the way to that rainbow.
Even now, I am not pretty sure where this post is going so I'd have to admit that this has got to be one of the non-sense posts I have ever made. See how lost I am? I can't even make a decent article to begin with. So I have decided to just focus on my outfit, which a "fashion blogger" is expected to do, right? I somehow hate to say that. Haha!
I wore this during the Us the Duo Tour in Manila to do my good sister duties by accompanying my sister who's drooling over to see them. If you happen to know them, then good for you. If not, (a little) shame on you dear. 'Cause, how could you? They are the two awesome persons from different sides of the world pulled together by their love for music in which leads them to becoming best friends and turns out, after some years, husband and wife. Just search them, please.
Anyway, I can't believe I pulled out this jacket from my closet after a long time. Would you believe that this jacket has been with me for 10 years already? I folded its sleeves because obviously, it's bitin. Haha!
Old Denim Jacket | H&M Top | Forever 21 Boots and Pants | Calvin Klein Bag
June 21, 2015
After several years of hiding behind the walls of world wide web, I can now say that, this blog reaches my Facebook. Finally! Yes, I have already decided to share my blog to my other social media accounts. It might sound a little crazy but that's all true.
Most of the people I met through blogging told me that I surprised them in a lot of things. Here are the reasons:
#1. I don't share my blog on my Facebook. Because of that, I got a lot of whys. Well, the main reason why I do not publicize my blog on Facebook is that, there are lots of people who can see it. But that's the purpose of blogging, right? I have a lot of friends on Facebook, each has a different personality. Maybe I'm too shy to share my outfit posts. Or maybe, I was afraid to be judged. Contrary to what a blogger needs— a large audience—I made it a point not to publicize my blog because I think, it does not have to be that way and that, it would be successful without sharing it on Facebook. Then, it happened.
#2. Only few know about my blog. I'm talking about the people I meet in school, work, and everything that is related to my personal life. And when someone finds out about it, I just wanted to run away from them. 'Cause really, I don't know what to do. Lol. But when someone from school came to me and said that she knows my blog, I was like, girl are you serious? How did you freakin' find out?! Hahaha! But to tell you honestly, it feels good to hear that.
#3. I have no Instagram. Some, okay, most of the people who know that I am a blogger were surprised to hear that I have no Instagram. I remember one time when someone I met from a shoot I have collaborated with almost shouted in the room are you serious?! Oh yes I am. Very. No doubt. So why don't I have an Instagram? Every time I get this question, I always give the same answer: I don't want to get addicted to it. I noticed that most people with IG were caged to their phones 24/7, before eating, they do every styling they know and sometimes, it gets to the point where they do crazy things just to get that perfect shot to be Instagram-worthy. I don't have anything against with people who loves Instagram. I just don't want that to happen to me. But there came a time when I asked myself, what if I have an Instagram? Sure, I'll have another set of followers. I'll gain more clients. And I'll get the exposure all bloggers want. Then I realized the importance of IG to every blogger, so I have decided to make one. Some brands prefer to have a lot of media platforms, especially Instagram.
Blogging helped me in so many ways. It made me realize who I really am and what I can do. It pushed me out of my comfort zone and meet great people. This blog has opened a lot of doors for me. So I am very thankful for keeping this blog. There's no reason for me to hide it. Once a secret remains not a secret anymore.
Top and Kimono from Bazaar | Shorts from Ellery Clothing | Shoes from Chloe Edit c/o Zalora Ph
June 7, 2015
Whether it's prom season or not, black ball dresses will never go out style. Just like what Taylor Swift says in her song, it never goes out of style.
With its sleek and timeless appeal, most girls prefer wearing black during events. Contrary to my personal style— girly and everything pastel— I challenged myself to try doing away with what I have become used to and try something new. I tried wearing the basics. And I don't regret shifting to black and whites. It made me feel more confident and matured.
And because I haven't posted anything for almost a month, I want to make it up to you. With this comeback post (Whoa, big word, huh?), I bring you the top three dresses from Pickedlooks which I personally chose. Pickedlooks is not a stranger to me anymore. I have already made several posts featuring them before. And I thought, why not make another one? They deserved to be featured again. I tell you, this store has everything you need. They have the trendiest designed gowns perfect for every event.
Not yet convinced? Well, below are just a few of their beautiful gowns for every beautiful girl like you! Let the gowns speak for me.
Trumpet/Mermaid Sweetheart Chiffon Sweep Train Split Front Prom Dresses. This has got to be my favorite among my choices. I love everything in this gown. It's very simple but very elegant. I wouldn't be surprised if everyone in the room gives you that oh-my-gosh stare when you wear this, 'cause really, who wouldn't?
Chiffon One Shoulder Sweep Train Sheath/Column Rhinestone Prom Dresses. One of the trendiest styles these days is the one-shoulder dress. No wonder why almost every girl chooses a one-shoulder dress because it is very appealing and looks sexy... and tall when worn. Plus the slit, oh my, you will get the attention you deserve on that night, girl!
What are you waiting for? Check out their site and fall in love with their designs! ♥
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