How Life Works

Friday, January 10, 2014

It might sound cliché for some but I will still say it. This new year, I will change for the better. 
Although it's really hard to get rid of all my negative attitudes, I will, at least, set them aside and replace them with every little positive things that could bring me to my goals. I have a lot of good things in mind that I want to pursue but I've been a scared chicken most of the times, so I end up hiding in my shell.

One of my biggest problems is my self-esteem. I am very affected with everyone's comments on my works and mostly, what others say to me gets stuck in my head. I know I can't please everyone even if try my very best. Then I realized, I was not born to please them. And that's how life works.
But even if there are people who will stand against me, I will not let them or their words run my life.
Instead of ranting about it, I'll just keep my mouth shut and think good things.
I spy with my little eye... If you've seen it, I'm sorry. If not, don't even try. Hahahaha

Seriously, I really need to focus on my writing skills for some time.
Eat. Surf the Internet. Take a bath. Watch TV. Eat. Sleep. Repeat. I'm really pissed of what I'm doing with my life.

On the first three photos above, I look like... ugh! I'll just leave it that to you but please, don't judge me :( hahaha. So, I had these amazing new found friends online. I'm so happy that we met and did a photoshoot. To be honest, I am not good at socializing with others personally because as far as I can remember, I'm shy lol, but I love meeting new people. Hello ShaunaAlly, and Anne! Thank you for the photos as well :)

Top from Greenhills | Shorts from Bazaar | Boots from Rusty

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107 comments

  1. Cute style and nice photos! It's really just a waste of time letting what other people say bother you. So yup! Just focus on the good things and you'll live a happier life I'm sure :)

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    1. Thank you! I agree with you, just be grateful on the good things we have and let it be :)

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  2. Simple yet stylish look! Loving your shoes<3

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  3. u look cute :)

    would you like to follow each other?
    MY-Emily

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  4. SUPER LOVE THE OUTFIT :)
    love reading your blog, It's very refreshing and genuine and I really appreciate that :)

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  5. Hi Cielo, I alr following u
    I can't wait for u to follow me back ^^
    MY-Emily

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  6. Love this post, you are too cute!
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    xoxo

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  7. I also have that difficulty to start the communication, I'm thinking about how to say "hi and what should I say first"
    hahaha :D But I always try to make it easygoing

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    1. Let's change it this time and try to be more friendly and not a bit shy hahaha :)

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  8. love the background and your shoes dear :D


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  9. Cute outfit! I love your shoes :)

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  10. Totally agree with you, sometimes it's really tiring to please everyone around us. Just do our best and that's more than enough :) By the way, thanks for leaving comment on my blog, of course I would love to follow each other! I'm following you on GFC now, hope you follow back! :)

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    1. Indeed. In the first place, our life is not about them, it's about us that's why it's "our" life so we don't have to please others always :) followed you already :)

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  11. Amazing simple outfit :) And I'm shy and I love meet new people too :)

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    1. Thank you! Let's not be shy at all times to meet more people :)

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  12. hello gorgeous :)

    i love these photos, you are so beautiful and natural!
    i would tottaly wear this outfit :))))
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    1. Aww. Thank you so much! Gonna check that out :)

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  13. You look lovely!! Yeah I rather do some crazy stuff but hey that's life :)

    xx Mira

    www.glamdevils.com

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    1. Thank you. Yeah that's life. Live the most of it :)

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  14. Cutie! Good luck with any New Years resolutions

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  15. You're soo adorable and I love your simple outfit [: personally i enjoy wearing comfy and simply clothing too!
    anywyay, would you be interested to follow each other?? do let me know!!

    Xxx
    www.thedancingpencilonpaper.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you! Me too, I'd rather choose comfort than style hahaha. Sure I'd love to :)

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  16. cute casual look!
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  17. Thanks for leaving such a darling comment on my blog!
    Cute look, and have the best 2014!

    Have a great day,
    -Kati

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  18. i'll do it :) love your look! i miss wearing hot weather clothes!

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  19. great style!!!
    following you via gfc and bloglovin now. hope you'll follow me, too!
    happy day!

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  20. simple but looks sexy, like your post baby!
    nice to know you anyway, i think to start following your blog.
    maybe you may also follow mine :)

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  21. Thanks for your comment and I'm following you now [:
    Hope you return the love and follow me back hehe

    Xxx
    www.thedancingpencilonpaper.blogspot.com

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  22. Great look! Thanks for stopping by! Would you like to follow each other on GFC, Facebook or bloglovin to stay in touch? Let me know, thanks!

    xx,
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  23. Such a simple yet lovely outfit! It's so refreshing to stop by another Filipino blogger! I hope you follow my blog, I am glad I started following yours!

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    1. Thank you fellow Filipino blogger! :)

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  24. Cute Outfit and Photos! You look wonderful :)

    big Hugs

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  25. I really love the boots! care to share where exactly you bought it? :D keep in touch! :)

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    1. Thank you! It's from a local brand, Rusty Lopez :)

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  26. great shorts!
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  27. Hi girl! Sorry sa late reply, been kinda busy/lazy with my blog. Im so jealous of how you update yours regularly.
    So have you seen Frozen na?
    Isog means matapang :)

    On to your post, I really do hope you fulfill all your new year's resolutions. I used to have the same problem with you with self-esteem and people pleasing. It takes time to shed the old skin off but if you really tell yourself you can, you can do it. :) ofcourse it wasn't easy but you'll slowly learn to if you try.

    Followed you via GFC 378 :)
    would be so happy if you follow back or keep in touch!

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    1. That's alright :) nah, I get busy at times din so I find it hard to spend time online. No, I didn't get a chance to watch Frozen in theaters :(

      I'm looking forward to it. And as much as possible, let's try to be positive at all times so we can get rid of the voice behind our backs telling we can't do it. Thank you! :)

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  28. nice casual outfit! love your boots!
    xoxo
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  29. Nice blog! Would you like to follow each other on Bloglovin and social media?
    Regards from Madrid
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  30. Hey girl, what a simple but cool outfit! Love the shots in front of the graffiti wall, I'm such a big street art fan! Hope you'll get ahead with your New Year resolutions ;-) Thanks for your lovely comment, xoxo
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    1. I enjoyed the view, too. It's so cool, right? Anyways, thank you! :)

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  31. love your look! Want to follow each other on GFC, Bloglovin and Twitter? If you do, let me know when you're following and I'll follow right back! x

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  32. I love your blog
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  33. Where was this shot? I think you look lovely. And don't worry, you're definitely not alone with that kind of lifestyle. My life was like that when I was younger. But as you grow older, you realize you wasted so much time doing nothing when you really need to be doing something. So yeah, it is good to know that you want to start living now. :)

    Jenn
    The Pink Lemonade Girl

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    1. In Taguig. Yeah, I knew I've wasted so much time being like that which triggers me to get active. Haha! Thank you! :)

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  34. Cute! ❤❤❤

    Let me know (by following me on Google + ) if you want me to follow you on Google + :)))

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  35. Hello pretty! I just saw your photos and looks so cute!Btw i loved your black short its so cool!! I just added new photos on my blog,and i want you to check it out!:)

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