To the Girl Who Feels Unsure of Herself

Sunday, March 27, 2016

Hey,

I know it's been hard to be you these days. Your boy just cheated on you. You lost the competition you've been preparing for months. You got rejected from the job interview you've been waiting for. I get you. 

You tried so hard and failed. Yet, you keep trying. And failed again. It's like you keep doing the same things to end up with the same result. But, no. You're trying because you want to get somewhere. I get you.


So what if you've failed many times already? It doesn't mean that you're useless and not worthy of the things you think you deserve. If you've been rejected, that means you're meant for something greater. Find it. If you've ever felt unsure of yourself, that just means you have big dreams. Don't stop. Just keep going. Get lost... It's okay to be lost sometimes.


The world seems to be tougher on your side. It will not always be on your favor. It will not always give you what you want. It will give you lots of struggle. It will make you cry even harder. But you know what? The world just made you tougher, too.


Maybe you don't know it yet. I think you're just oblivious of the thought that you are stronger than you think you are. Maybe you don't have everything figured out just yet so for now, do what you love doing. Keep baking. Join the singing team. Dance the night away. Act with your heart. Or maybe start writing the story that has been on your mind for months. Find someone whom you can do these with. Someone who will support you. Someone who will cheer you up whenever you feel down. I'm sure there is someone that is willing to get you company. Someone who won't give up on you... even if you already have. 

Go out there. You'll be just fine.

Love,
Yourself


What makes you stronger? What keeps you going?
Share me your thoughts on the comment box below and I'd be so happy to know your dreams and goals. :)

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134 comments

  1. lovely dress!

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  2. This was such a lovely post! Also I LOVE your shoes - having some awesome boots or platform heels makes me feel a lot stronger and better about myself

    Steph - http://nourishmeclean.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you! That's great! You know, I feel the same way, too. Whenever I wear heels or the platform sandals I'm wearing in the photos above, I become more confident. :)

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  3. You look pretty :)

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  4. I always get my strenght from my family and students :) love the dress and shoes!

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    1. Wow that's great to know! Without them, we're nothing. Thanks for sharing. :)

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  5. super:) xx
    Bianka
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  6. I totally found myself in the first few sentences and it's so hard to be positive after all of it. I lost the competition I wanted to win so bad and I just... It's hard to accept the fact that I couldn't do better and start trying harder. My motivation to keep going has always been my family, my parents exactly who I want to make proud of me and the fact that time is passing so fast and I need to do something to make it worth it.
    You look wonderful and thank you very much for sharing this with us!xx


    Vildana from Stalia Is BAE & Living Like V

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    1. Oh girl, I feel you! I've been in the same shoes for so many times. I was so devastated, down and felt worthless. Worst part was, I lost my self-confidence. There were times that I questioned my own capabilities because I felt that I wasn't good enough. Well, I still do. But I didn't stop. And look where I am now. I fulfilled one of my dreams and now, few steps closer to get where I want to be. Keep yourself motivated and inspired. DON'T EVER STOP TRYING. You'll get there! :)

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  7. You're so romantic, lovely !

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  8. Awesome post! I had fun reading this. :)


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  9. Love the dress and the hat is perfect on you!!!

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  10. Such a sweet and charming look, you look darling.
    xox
    Lenya
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  11. You look so gentle and womanly! I like pink&black combination. It makes your look unique.

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  12. so cute your dress! and beautiful words
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  13. estás cada día más guapa!!! un besazo! te espero en mi blog


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  14. precioso el vestido, guapisima!!! :)

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  15. Thank you for your comment on my blog. :) Sure, it would be great to follow each other. I started to folllowing you via GFC and I hope you will follow me back soon. :)

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  16. Your blog is lovely! Would you like to follow each other:
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    I am now following you.
    Thank you! Mimi

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  17. Looking very cute in this skater dress, and love the hat.

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  18. This color look great on you very cute dress, you look stunning.
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  19. Your words are so encouraging :)
    For me, what's makes me stronger is I know that there's always somebody who accept me for who I am :)
    By the way, I love your platform shoes!

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    1. Thank you! :) Everyone needs someone who will accept them as they are. :)

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  20. i love the dress! so beautiful. nice pics btw! keep up the good works dear!

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    have a nice day, cheers!

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  21. You're so pretty! I followed you on GFC, follow me back?

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  22. that's a simple dress but looks pretty on you. love the dress color. and also love your shoes^^

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  23. First of all you look lovely in that dress. And second, that first paragraph hit me. I can't say that we've been through the same but it was, somehow, similar in a way. What's worse is that everything seems perfect last year and then all of a sudden...

    But I'm never giving up. I've been through bigger things in the past and I know I can get through this. I've managed to become stronger, more patient, and more persevering than before. We can do it. :)


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    1. That's the spirit! Don't ever give up even if the world slaps you a million times, okay? :)

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  24. Just found you blog on Google +! I love what you've named it! Super cute outfit here girl too! <3

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  25. That dress looks perfect on you!

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  26. Such a lovely dress, you look cute! x

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  27. Oh very cute dress darling
    Lovely style
    xx

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  28. These kinds of posts are what makes me miss the old blogging world. Rarely do bloggers these days write something personal and inspirational.

    Life is life; it will never be perfect. Sometimes you are up and sometimes you are down. It is a cycle. But that is what makes it interesting. You will fail. You will be rejected. You will be cheated on. So you have to learn how to fight. You have to learn how to never give up and keep pursuing your dreams. We have the power to shape our future. Everything is in our hands. Just believe and God will give it to you at the right time. :)

    Jenn
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    1. Me, too! I really miss reading inspirational and motivational posts from the bloggers I look forward to that made me followed them.

      Life has its own way to make us stronger and better than we used to be. We have to accept the fact that things aren't exactly how we imagine. :)

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  29. you look so lovely dear!

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  30. Hey Cielo, what a sweet look and inspiring post!

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  31. Thanks my dear :D
    You look so fabulous and this pastel color dress look amazing on you <3

    Like a princess <3

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  32. beautiful dress, you look stunning!

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  33. Hello, my name is Lucy and I´m blogger from Czech Republic.
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  34. Definitely needed this inspiring post, it really helped with my low mood atm. That dress looks great on you as well! You've gained a new follower~ ^^

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    1. Thank you! Glad it helped you a bit. :)

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  35. Hello , I look here , I've come to return the visit and I come across a wonderful text that , loved , and we must follow it, there will be difficult days anything that does not pass .
    I loved the Blog, all very beautiful , I'm following , just missing you , I hope you there ..
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  36. great image, love the dress
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  37. You look so beautiful! Love your dress!
    Have a great day!
    XO Pisa
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  38. I really like your dress color! So relaxing :)

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  39. You look super cute in this dress. xx
    Nina
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  40. Really lovely post! Love the way that you are giving great advice! It is so easy to give up when life gives you lemons. Love your blog! <3

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  41. So cute! Love this look <3

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  42. Being afraid with failures always be my huge wall for reaching something I'm longing to. But, if I can't handle it for sure I can't be better than before. I love your post, very positive and amazingly inspiring. Good luck!

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    1. Thank you! I hope you'd keep on going and pursue the things you desire even in the hardest times. Don't give up. :)

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  43. Wise words. very cute outfit and pictures too.

    I followed you GFC and IG

    Deedee

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  44. Lovely outfit!

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  45. I love your post. Thank you for spreading your positive vibes <3

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  46. Dear, so cool outfit. But I love the topic so much, nice words-
    I like it :)
    Have a nice day,
    Andjela
    xoxo

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  47. Beautiful dress! You looks so pretty!

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  48. Such a pretty dress!

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  49. Wow, Cielo, this is such a beautiful post. I felt the heart and emotion in every word, all of which are so comforting to anyone who read it, including myself. Thank you for your encouragement, it's greatly appreciated! You look incredibly beautiful. I adore the dress, the hat looks so cute with it and your hair looks lovely! Thanks so much for sharing, beauty, and I hope you have the most amazing week ahead, girlie!

    XO,

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    1. Hi, Jalisa! I appreciate your kind and sweet words. Thank you for all the compliments! :)

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  50. Well, as the cliche goes, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
    Love the simplicity and femininity of this outfit.

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  51. Omg ! You are so cute <3
    followed you dear...

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  52. I really like this lovely dress perfect on you
    Great post. Well done.
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  53. Cute look!
    kisses

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  54. Great combo. Perfect for summer.

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  55. i love your dress!
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  56. Woah cool style! Love it!
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