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With Valentine's Day just around the corner, it's high time to prepare the perfect date night outfit. So if you still don't have any idea what to wear on the most romantic day of the year or you just need a fresh inspo for February 14, here's a Valentine's Day outfit idea that will definitely make your date swoon!

When it comes to fashion, there are pieces that just make sexy look easy. Among these is the classic no-fail red dress. 

Here I'm wearing an off-shoulder red dress from Shein. What I love about this dress are its intricate details that make this Valentine's Day outfit idea unique. From the sleeves down to its hem, every detail is oh-so-stunning. 

While red is an obvious choice for Valentine's Day, you can still spice it up a bit more. So what I did to make this Valentine's Day outfit idea stand out is style it with a pair of eye-catching white platforms. I'm petite so the extra lift really helps. I think this pair is going to be my new go-to heels since it's very comfortable when worn. Unlike other 5-inch heels, these pair of platforms were made for walking! With this, I don't have to worry about stumbling or tripping in front of my date. 

1. Choose a piece that will both make you look and feel beautiful. Decide which piece of your outfit would you like to get attention on.
2. Pair your Valentine's Day outfit idea with the perfect shoes. If you want to look sexier, go for sleek strappy heeled-sandals; if you want to look preppy and cute, go for a pair of doll shoes or sneakers.
3. Wear the right accessories. Since you're already wearing a striking color, keep your accessories at a minimum so your Valentine's Day outfit won't be a sore to the eyes. 
4. Lastly, wear your best smile and confidence. These are the two most important things that will make your Valentine's Day outfit idea a win!

During COVID-19 pandemic, the world discovered that social media is a great way for us to stay connected even while physically separated. Basically, social media has become our escape from the struggles and stress that the pandemic brought.

There are social media platforms that allow you send connect and reconnect with people; platforms that let you show your creativity through photos and videos. We all do this for fun but what if you earn cash just by posting and engaging with your followers on social media? 

This is what Ohaiii is all about. Ohaiii is the newest social media platform that lets models and influencers create, share and earn from their content.

"The pandemic marked a major turning point of the digital communities worldwide and for our society in general. Along with heightening of uncertainties brought by COVID-19, people's lifestyle, livelihood, and social systems as a whole, underwent major changes. Through these changes, we have appreciated the great power and value of digital technology. These digitally spurred social changes shall be the rock in which Ohaiii was built," says Andrea Delgado, CEO & Founder of Ohaiii. 

How can you earn on Ohaiii?

There are several ways to earn through Ohaiii platform: 

• via subscription  
• via Live Stream 
• via Photo and Video Uploads 
• via Video Request through Direct message

After Lockdown Fashion Show

Another event that took place during the Ohaiii web app launching was the After Lockdown Fashion Show. The show aims to jumpstart the fashion industry through the Philippine Fashion Shift (PFS) which is a sub-branch of Ohaiii. PFS promotes the creations of young local designers. 

Groups of models did their own catwalks at Pasig Revolving Tower wearing the masterpieces of various talented Filipino designers. The designers that have showcased their creations were Paula Villasper, Lyka Ann Chan Racuya, Mercy Asuncion, Franz Uy, Elsie Delos Reyes, Winchelle Castro, Angel Esteban, Chris T Ian, Norman Acuba Designs, and Russ Cuevas.

From the kawaii and colorful anime-like dresses to the classy glamorous gowns fit for balls, Ohaiii presented the designers' works successfully. There were also fashion pieces that promotes the traditional Filipino fabrics and clothing, and some that even featured paintings on dresss similar to Vincent van Gogh's arts. Through the PFS, the budding and known designs were introduced to a larger market. 

If you are a model or an influencer and you are interested in being part of the Ohaiii community, you can send them a message.

Website: ohaiii.com

Email: ohaiiiofficial@gmail.com

Facebook: @ohaiiiofficial Instagram: @ohaiiiofficial

Mobile: 09273059127

In this day and age where social media is (almost) everything, many people are now shifting to the world wide web to build their career to pursue the “dream." Among the most popular online careers are bloggers, vloggers, and social media influencers. But as many would have thought wrong, braving this world is not that easy because there’s really a huge and serious competition out there.

Speaking from experience, having passion is not enough to succeed in this world. Because with so many people who have the same passion and goals as yours, how do you make yours stand out? How do you increase visitor numbers and build a loyal following? One way is leveraging platforms like Tokmatik to buy followers. But increasing your following organically, that's the challenge. And how do you get people returning to you for more?

So in this article, I will share with you how I became a successful blogger. This is not the typical finding your niche blog tips. While it’s a factor as well, there’s more to blogging than that. 

How I started

The Girl Behind the Pen started nine years ago. I created this blog as a way to reach my dream of working in a popular teenage magazine in the Philippines. At first, I shared random things in my life and eventually, it became a fashion blog. I love mixing and matching pieces-that-don’t-work-well-together-but-somehow-I-managed-to-pull-off.

I didn’t have sponsors that time, I featured my old clothes from my closet and sometimes, I’ll spend my savings from my allowance to buy clothes to be featured. I asked my little sister who was 10 years old at that time to take a photo of me using our digital camera. I got several good comments telling me that I was able to help them fix their fashion dilemma, while some told me that they were really inspired by my posts to get through life’s challenges. As time passed, my blog grew and my reach became even wider. 

Back then, I really had no intentions of monetizing my blog nor becoming a famous blogger; one because I was really a shy person, and two is because I really didn’t know that it was possible. A few months passed and one international brand reached out to me and that was my very first paid collaboration. Eventually, it continued with both local and international brands. I got invited to events, asked to review products, wore pieces from a shop’s new collections, became a brand ambassador, and so on. That got me thinking, whoa, it’s really possible to make a living out of blogging. But I didn’t want to make it that way, I want my blog to remain a hobby because I don’t want to be pressured that I have to earn this amount of money or go to five places a week for an event to consider myself successful. I just let it be. Besides, what I really wanted was to become a writer.

My setbacks

Though I told myself that I will not make this blog a living nor becoming a famous blogger, in the back of my mind, there’s a part of me that wants to because it’s the dream, right? You just have to go to events and get paid, you will get free clothes or skincare in exchange for one blog post, you meet a lot of people, and so on. These are really fun. 

If only I did the right thing at the right moment, blogging could have been my full-time career, and perhaps, I’ll be a popular blogger. But I didn’t because I was afraid and I wasn’t open to making use of the new platforms (Instagram). In short, I refused to adapt to the new trend and that was really one of my biggest regrets to this day. I’d be lying if I tell you that it was all okay. I had a hard time riding on the trend because, by the time I did, I thought I was too late. All the bloggers that started at the same time as I did were ahead of me already. I got unmotivated so I laid low and thought I lost my readers.

But instead of allowing that to bring me down, I used it as a motivation to work harder. 

How I got back in the game

I was so close to giving up that time because I was pressured on the thought that I was too late and there are so many people, even younger than me, who are “making it” in the industry. While it’s really challenging, I told myself that I have to brave the road and get myself out there. And so I did.

I continued blogging. I’m not as active as I was before but this is a good restart. This time, I didn’t let the pressure of the numbers get in the way. I blog at my own pace and in my own terms just how it used to be. But in order for me to be a successful blogger, I have to be more creative than ever. This, I think, is how I will stand out. Thankfully, there are still people who read my blog and appreciate my articles. They may be less than it was before but what matters most is, someone still reads my blog.

I’ll continue to write about fashion and self-help tips to empower other people. Alongside these, I’ll also share some of my travel discoveries, food recommendations, and so much more. I’ll be the blogger that anyone could turn to whenever they have a dilemma. 

Key takeaways

To summarize everything, here are the things I learned from my setbacks for me to succeed in the industry.

• Don’t let go of your passion.

• Be open to changes.

• Timing is key. It really is.

• Don’t be pressured by society.

• Be creative.

• Build your network.

• Know your worth.

• Engage with your readers.

• Have a clear goal.

• Be consistent.

• Always be humble.

Becoming a successful blogger does not mean you must have a huge following on social media. Sometimes, all it takes is one person who believes in what you do. There's not really an accurate answer as to what success is because we all have our own definitions of success. And as for me, this is success. 

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You know that feeling when you put on an outfit, and suddenly, you're exuding confidence like you own the place? That's the magic of the Old Money Aesthetic, and I’m totally here for it! 

Let's talk about this trend that's making waves on every social media feed — have you noticed how fashionistas everywhere are embracing this vintage-inspired look, radiating elegance like never before? It's like a blast from the past, with a modern twist, and I can't help but fall head over heels for it. So, if you're feeling the FOMO (fear of missing out) and itching to try this trend, you're not alone!

So, let's explore what this Old Money trend is all about, where it originated, and how to achieve that vibe effortlessly.

What is the Old Money Aesthetic?

The Old Money Aesthetic is a sartorial nod to the refined fashion sensibilities of generations past. It embraces classic silhouettes, exquisite fabrics, and polished accessories. This trend celebrates the timeless appeal of dressing with intention, embracing quality over quantity, and exuding an air of understated confidence. It's about creating an effortlessly chic look that effortlessly bridges the past and the present.

Origins of the Old Money Outfit Trend

The Old Money Aesthetic draws its roots from the refined lifestyles of the old aristocracy. In eras gone by, people took pride in their appearances and viewed fashion as an art form. Wardrobes were thoughtfully curated with heirloom pieces that were passed down through generations, each telling a unique story.

Over the years, this style has evolved and made a powerful resurgence in modern fashion. Today, the Old Money Aesthetic is more about embodying the essence of timeless elegance rather than adhering to strict social hierarchies. It's a trend that's accessible to all, regardless of background.

Top and Shorts from Zara | Bag from Charles & Keith | Shoes from Lazada

How to Get the Old Money Look

Now that we know the essence of the Old Money Aesthetic, let's dive into how you can effortlessly embrace it. With a touch of sophistication and a sprinkle of confidence, you'll be a vision of classic elegance in no time.

Must-Have Pieces for Your Old Money Vibes Outfit

The Classic White Linen Polo

A crisp white linen polo is an absolute must for achieving that Old Money charm. The breathable fabric not only keeps you comfortable during warm summer days but also adds a touch of effortless luxury. Pair it with high-waisted shorts to accentuate your silhouette and exude refined casualness.

The High-Waisted Shorts with a Belt

High-waisted shorts are the epitome of timeless grace and are perfect for bringing the Old Money Aesthetic to life. Opt for a neutral shade like beige, cream, or light pastels to maintain that classic vibe. Complete the look with a sleek belt to cinch in your waist and elevate your overall appearance.

Sophisticated Accessories

Accessories are the finishing touches that truly define your Old Money look. Opt for a pair of vintage-inspired sunglasses, a pearl or gold necklace, and classic leather platforms. A structured leather handbag or a chic tote with gold hardware will add an element of luxury to your ensemble.

Tailored Outerwear

Although I’m not wearing one, no Old Money-inspired outfit is complete without a well-tailored blazer or a trench coat. These timeless pieces effortlessly elevate any look and exude an air of refinement. Opt for neutral tones or traditional patterns like houndstooth or plaid to keep the aesthetic cohesive.

Remember, the Old Money Aesthetic is all about embracing quality pieces that stand the test of time. Don't shy away from investing in timeless classics that will last you years, allowing you to create countless sophisticated looks.

So, there you have it – the Old Money Aesthetic, a trend that embraces elegance, sophistication, and a touch of nostalgia. Now that you know the essentials, it's time to curate your wardrobe and make this timeless trend your own. Embrace the charm of yesteryears while staying true to your unique style.

As you strut the streets in your timeless pieces, remember that confidence is the ultimate accessory. Pair it with your signature smile, and you'll effortlessly exude that Old Money charm wherever you go.

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Many have a notion that being fashionable means putting together all the stylish pieces to create that look of the day. While this is true, it's not always the case. Sometimes, all it takes is just one piece to look stylish. Alright, I won't beat around the bush anymore — I'm talking about jumpsuits.

Years ago, I was so into mixing and matching pieces thinking I'll create a fashion statement or something. But lately, I find myself in the pleasure of slipping into a jumpsuit or rompers. This summer staple is no longer for the dry season alone — but for all seasons! 

The Good & The Bad of Wearing Jumpsuits

Jumpsuits are easy to fall in love with, actually. It's breathable, versatile, and classy, and makes effortless dressing so stylish. Perfect for every lazy fashion woman. What I really like about jumpsuits is that I don't have to worry about mixing and matching tops and bottoms. This white jumpsuit from Ever New makes me so excited for days when I have to wear this because it's so simple, easy to style, and very elegant. With a jumpsuit like this, you just need one and you're done!

However, a white jumpsuit like this has its drawbacks, too. There are jumpsuit styles that are too difficult to put on and take off to the point where you don't even know which hole your arm should go to. Another thing is that jumpsuits are more flattering to taller women. But if you're petite like me, there are tricks on how you can make a jumpsuit love you back: wear heels or platforms. Lastly, the thing I hate the most about wearing a jumpsuit is, whenever I'm going to the restroom, it can really be a pain. Imagine, going to a public restroom and you have to take off the whole thing (at least for the top part) for you to pee.

While wearing jumpsuits have disadvantages, those drawbacks don't outweigh the benefits of wearing one. Whether it's summer or not, I will always have a jumpsuit ready. 

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