Charmingly Vulnerable

Friday, March 23, 2018

Dear you,

I will tell you something about selfish and coward people. Someone once told me that even they know they will hurt you, they will still walk to you and enter your wall to feel you because you are the type of being they don't want to miss out on.

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You are too beautiful to not be looked at. You are too graceful to not be asked for a dance. You are too shiny to not be taken on a date night out. You are too smart to not have a conversation with. And you are too precious to not be held.

And when they already had a good look at everything you have to offer; when they have taken your truths, flaws and secrets with them; and when they realize how real this is becoming, it hits them.

All before cowardice kicks in, they'll stand beside you.


That is when the people you thought they were is replaced by the morose truth of what they really are. That is when they lose all the guts and leave after saying you will find better than me.

I tell you, remember that you are too beautiful to not be looked at. You are too graceful to not be asked for a dance. You are too shiny to not be taken on a date night out. You are too smart to not have a conversation with. And you are too precious to not be held.

So do not ever settle for less. You are strong yet charmingly vulnerable. Go for what makes you happy but know that you deserve better than what you think is already good for you now.

Love,
Yourself


So on to my outfit, this is actually one of my favorites because pastel pink is all over me! Plus, the skirt I'm wearing here is so cute and perfect for a girly-girl like me. What do you think of my outfit? :)


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Top from Topshop | Skirt from Romwe | Sunglasses from Sunnies Studios | Platforms from Dresslily

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55 comments

  1. Lovely post and outfit!

    Lauren,
    http://www.atouchofsoutherngrace.com

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  2. That outfit is so cute! Love the skirt! :)

    Kisses
    ropesofpearls.blogspot.pt

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  3. i love your point here, dear. to always love ourselves first, but most of the time i fail to put myself at the top priority especially when i already fell for someone. but the relationship with our own set the tone for other relationship with others, right?

    and your outfit, you are so pretty in pink ♥️
    keep writing, i am a new reader of your blog, but i’ll come back to read more!

    xx
    Dias from DARLING VINTAGE BLOG

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    1. Aww thank you for reading! And yes, our relationship with ourselves set the tone for other relationships. It's totally normal to think less of ourselves when we're in a relationship because it's our significant other who we always put first well, because we love them. But we should know how to balance things, too, for it to work :)

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  4. Lovely post and you look super pretty in pink!
    Kisses, Paola.

    Expressyourself

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  5. Your style is fresh and unique... Love it..

    Glowyshoes's blog

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  6. Love the outfit, you're so pretty!!
    I'm following you :)

    Kisses,
    https://thesoulofacosmopolitangirl.blogspot.pt/

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  7. You look amazing!! love your outfit. Be aware from selfish people.
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  8. Thanks dear for visiting me!
    I loved your blog too and yes! I´m already following you, hope you can follow me as well. <3
    You look so so ...pretty in those photos! :D
    xx

    www.trendsandfashionblog.pt

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  9. I already follow you on gfc. I also follow you now on ig
    Xx

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  10. You look very pretty i love the outfit :)
    Thank you for the comment on my blog i've started following you ^^
    xx

    http://lalabetterdayz.blogspot.co.uk/

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  11. I loved the look!
    I'm a new follower :)
    Kisses
    https://islandgirlife.blogspot.pt

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  12. good photo and image beautiful
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  13. And when those people are our family? I loved your pink outfit.
    Follow for follow?
    Xoxo from Portugal

    marisasclosetblog.com

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  14. Gorgeous in these pastels. I love your skirt, beautiful!
    Also, love the positive words!

    www.fashionradi.com

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  15. Adorable! Pink suits you very beautiful :)

    kisses

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  16. You look beautiful <3
    Blog

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  17. Thanks so much for your visit and of course we can follow eachother! I'm allready following you :)

    Your outfit is lovely!

    Have a great week, kisses from Portugal <3
    http://demantanosofa.blogspot.pt/

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  18. Such a cute outfit! Love the skirt. We should be wary of selfish people, it's hard when you have already fallen for the person and they make you feel guilty for taking care of your own needs.


    Ami Amour

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